Visiting Tips: Making the Most of Your Time Together in Assisted Living Communities This Holiday Season
The holidays are a special time to reconnect with family and friends, and for those with loved ones in assisted living communities, visits are more important than ever. These moments offer opportunities for joy, sharing traditions, and making lasting memories. To help you make the most of your visits this holiday season, here are some thoughtful tips to ensure your time together is meaningful, comfortable, and enjoyable for all.
Plan Ahead and Coordinate
Before your visit, check with the assisted living community regarding their holiday schedules, visitor policies, and any special events. Many communities host festive activities or meals where families are welcome to join in. Call ahead to confirm details and see if you can participate in any group celebrations or contribute something special, like favorite treats or holiday decorations.
Bring the Holiday Spirit
Decorate your loved one’s space with festive touches—a small tree, twinkling lights, or familiar ornaments from home can instantly create a warm, cheerful atmosphere. Engage your loved one in decorating, reminiscing about past holidays, or listening to favorite seasonal songs together. Even bringing along familiar scents like cinnamon or pine can evoke happy memories and enhance the mood.
Focus on Meaningful Activities
Prioritize activities that match your loved one’s abilities and interests. Consider reading holiday stories aloud, baking simple treats together, or working on a craft project like making greeting cards. Sharing a photo album or watching old family videos can spark conversation and laughter. Sometimes, simply sitting together and holding hands can be the most treasured gift of all.
Be Mindful of Energy Levels
Visits during the holidays can be exciting but also tiring for older adults. Pay attention to your loved one’s cues and take breaks if needed. Short, frequent visits might be more enjoyable than one long stay. If your loved one tires easily, plan your visit during their best time of day, often mid-morning or early afternoon.
Involve the Whole Family
Include children and other family members in your visits. Kids can bring joy and energy, but remind them to be gentle and patient. Encourage them to share stories, sing carols, or show off school projects. For those who can’t be there in person, arrange a video call or send cards and photos to share during your visit.
Respect Community Guidelines
Assisted living communities may have special protocols during the holidays, especially regarding group gatherings or health precautions. Respect staff instructions, mask policies, and other guidelines to keep everyone safe. Ask staff if there are ways your family can contribute to the holiday spirit for all residents, such as participating in a sing-along or helping decorate common areas.
Cherish the Moments—Big and Small
The greatest gift you can offer is your presence. Focus on being fully present—put away your phone, listen attentively, and soak in the joy of togetherness. Take photos, share hugs, and express your love and gratitude. These simple moments often become the most precious memories for everyone involved.
Final Thoughts
The holidays in an assisted living community can be filled with warmth, laughter, and connection. By planning ahead, bringing festive cheer, and focusing on what matters most, you’ll create lasting memories with your loved one during this special season. Happy holidays to you and your family!
